Korean Honorifics: A Complete Guide to Formal and Informal Speech
Korean Honorifics: The Complete Guide
Korean has one of the most developed honorific systems of any language. Getting it right isn't just about grammar — it's about showing respect and fitting into Korean social dynamics.
The Core Concept
Korean speech levels determine how you end your sentences. The two you'll use most as a learner are:
- 존댓말 (jondaenmal) — Polite/formal speech
- 반말 (banmal) — Casual/informal speech
The key factor? Your relationship to the listener. Age, social status, and familiarity all play a role.
The Speech Levels
Korean technically has 7 speech levels, but 3 are used in daily conversation:
1. Formal Polite (합쇼체 / hapsyoche)
The most formal level. Used in business, news broadcasts, military, and presentations.
- 감사합니다 (gamsahamnida) — Thank you
- 먹습니다 (meokseumnida) — I eat
- 갑니다 (gamnida) — I go
When: Job interviews, formal speeches, customer service, talking to much older people.
2. Informal Polite (해요체 / haeyoche)
The everyday polite level. This is your default as a Korean learner.
- 감사해요 (gamsahaeyo) — Thank you
- 먹어요 (meogeoyo) — I eat
- 가요 (gayo) — I go
When: Most daily interactions — colleagues, acquaintances, strangers, shops, restaurants.
3. Casual (해체 / haeche)
Informal speech between close friends and to people younger than you.
- 고마워 (gomawo) — Thanks
- 먹어 (meogeo) — I eat
- 가 (ga) — I go
When: Close friends of similar age, younger siblings, children.
The Age Rule
In Korea, age is the primary factor for choosing speech level:
- Older than you → Use 존댓말 (polite or formal)
- Same age → Start with 존댓말, switch to 반말 if both agree
- Younger → You can use 반말, but it's nice to use 존댓말 until you're familiar
The phrase "말 놓을까요?" (mal noeulkkayo?) means "Shall we drop formalities?" — it's how Koreans negotiate switching to casual speech.
Honorific Vocabulary
Some words have completely different honorific forms:
| Standard | Honorific | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| 먹다 (meokda) | 드시다 (deusida) | To eat |
| 자다 (jada) | 주무시다 (jumusida) | To sleep |
| 있다 (itda) | 계시다 (gyesida) | To be/exist |
| 말하다 (malhada) | 말씀하시다 (malsseum-hasida) | To speak |
| 집 (jip) | 댁 (daek) | House/home |
| 이름 (ireum) | 성함 (seongham) | Name |
| 나이 (nai) | 연세 (yeonse) | Age |
You use the honorific form when talking about someone you respect, not just to them.
Common Mistakes
- Using 반말 with strangers — Even if they look your age, start with 존댓말
- Mixing levels — Switching between 해요체 and 반말 mid-conversation sounds awkward
- Over-formalizing with friends — If a Korean friend says "말 놓자" (let's speak casually), it's rude to keep using 존댓말
- Forgetting the subject honorific -시- — When talking about someone older, add -시- to verbs: 가다 → 가시다
Practice on Chamelingo
Chamelingo's exercises mark every dialogue with its formality level. You'll practice switching between speech levels in context — ordering at a restaurant (polite), chatting with a friend (casual), and presenting at work (formal). The AI tutor also adapts to whichever level you want to practice.
Dive deeper into politeness levels and verb conjugation in our interactive grammar reference, which covers speech level endings, the honorific suffix -시-, and polite request forms like -주세요 with hands-on exercises.